The Three Principles Behind a Strong Leader

Often when you read about leadership it all surrounds around the über success of the person and the size of their bank account. But there is more to leadership than that. When success is attained, what separates the winners and losers is their level of humility. Nothing is worse than meeting someone successful
who is not a nice person. I have been disappointed more times than I care to admit. Some stories would shock you but they are in my vault and unlike George Costanza I don’t open it 🙂 I do have to say though- they eventually get what they deserve. Karma is indeed a bitch.

I am often asked how I picked the individuals I decided to write about in “Opportunity Knocking”. While I certainly looked at their accomplishments, I paid particular attention to their humility. In order to appreciate success you have to be thankful and remember to pay forward.

From Harold Hamm, who says “I try to practice humility on a daily basis,” to David Rubenstein, who reminds us, “If good fortune should strike, it is important to give back much of that good fortune to help others … reach their own objectives and to achieve some measure of good fortune as well,” these leaders have never forgotten where they came from. Their pyramids are stronger because of that.

True leaders are not empty souls. They do not live and operate in a bubble of arrogance. They inspire others by their actions. Words are great but unless they are backed up with action they are worthless. In this book I asked all of my contacts three things I believe are necessary in order to live a full, well-rounded life: Rules to Live By, Mantra and Life Lessons.

These three principles are critical in creating your road map to success. Just like the Opportunity Pyramid where each layer supports and builds you to the next level, you must have these three principles in order to achieve your goals. They should be your anchor, stabilizing you in the sea of challenge and uncertainty.

In a page from my notebook on Harold Hamm– you will see the winning combination of business savvy and humility.

A Page from My Notebook: Harold Hamm

Rules to Live By

• I have pressed hard to cram as much leadership training into my curriculum as quickly as possible to get ahead of my competition and grow as an effective
leader. I have enjoyed teaching leadership through seminars, while honing my own skills. Although I still have a long way to go, I have developed a leadership
style that empowers my key people to implement corporate strategies and execute them well.

• A strong capitalistic system for business is critical so that entrepreneurs like myself can and will build wonderful businesses across America. I believe
strongly in entrepreneurship, having built a very large company from scratch.

Mantra
Planning—planning—execution. Planning is integral to good execution. People who come in with their hair on fire irk me. Poor planning on their part does not necessarily constitute an emergency on my part.

Life Lessons

• You have to base your life around principles: fairness, integrity, charity, honesty, caring for others, etc. If you deviate from these, you are just fooling yourself and setting yourself up for a big fall. I try to practice humility on a daily basis and employ all of the principles I have learned.

• I have learned never to become over-leveraged with debt. I have a signed pledge on my wall that I live by personally. It reads “Neither a Borrower Nor a Lender
Be.” It has served me well.

• At Continental we have only borrowed meaningfully to develop projects that have already proven to be very economical, with high rates of return.

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Opportunity Pyramid: The 7 Pillars of Success

In today’s fast paced media driven world, the successful individuals that headline the world news are often put on pedestals where they are revered so much, you think they were super human. They’re not. They’re just regular people. The difference is they have recognized the seven pillars of success you need in order to succeed. We all have these tools- the difference is many of us just fail to see them. We are so caught up in the moment, the “drama” or the self loathing “woe is me” that we neglect to see the path to happiness and success.

There are seven steps that one needs to take in order to reach your full potential. They all depend on the other and are all equally important and each pillar supports the other:


Knowing yourself

you need to know yourself in order to tackle any opportunity that comes along. You must know your strengths and leverage them and work on your weaknesses. All successful people have a high sense of self awarenesss.

Building Your Knowledge

In order to be the best you can be you have to have the knowledge to support your plan and strategies. Book knowledge is good but so is hands on knowledge. Learn from others, read trade magazines, anything to keep you current. Even taking a selective college course. The choices are endless for anyone who wants to expand their knowledge.

Defining Your Opportunity Strategy and Sticking with It
Ask yourself based on your knowledge and what you are good at– what do you want to do? Can you build a company based on your talents? You need to look at yourself as a brand. What makes you special is your intrinsic value to your business, aspiring business or the organization your work for. Once you define that you are halfway to achieving what you want to do. Based on that definition, every decision you make needs to go back to that very definition. Every strategy employed has the sole purpose so you can achieve your goals.

Stoking Your Inner Passion

Passion gets you through the highs and lows on your journey to achieving success. You need to be your biggest cheerleader. You owe it to yourself to be positive and remember how far you have come. The road may be filled with potholes and detours but in the end, your passion will be the fuel to get you through the journey. A key piece to this pillar is surrounding yourself with positive people that believe in the same mission you believe in. Cut out the negative, dramatic people- they are energy and time killers.

Staying the Course

I believe this is the most time consuming piece out of all the pillars. Why? Because this is where you are challenged time and time again. People may doubt you, you may even start doubting yourself. Success is rarely made overnight. If you want it bad enough you will make the sacrifice and take the time to get it done.

Executing

While you are staying the course it is critical to make sure you are executing at the highest level of performance and you are focusing on every detail. Sloppiness is not a nurturing piece in the success equation.

World Domination

This is the apex of the pyramid. It’s been a long, hard road but you have achieved what you set out to do. But that does not mean the journey is over. You need to stay relevant. If you rest on your laurels, your competition will catch up. You want to constantly innovate, reinvent and test yourself. That will keep your passion going and pushing the bar even higher.

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Preventing Leadership Blind Spots

With the stunning primary loss of House Majority Leader Eric Cantor to Tea Party candidate David Brat the latest buzz on “beltway blindness” and how Cantor and the press didn’t see it coming got me thinking. This “blindness” can happen to anyone in any career/industry.

All good leaders need to break that bubble. Sure, the higher you go up in the food chain in your work life you can easily lose touch. That is why it is so important to have a solid culture and mantra to believe in. It’s the glue to your foundation and the pin to pop any bubble that may form.

This is how Alan Mulally of Ford was able to turn the once beleaguered company around. The reality of Ford’s situation was ugly. Mulally popped the bubble and addressed the problems head on with a set of standards he implemented and made mandatory. From the mechanics all the way to the C-suite- “Opening the Highways to All Mankind” has been their beckon of light. Mulally created the “One Ford Culture” based on this mantra. By staying the course with these values and codes of conduct, the family of workers at Ford can stay tuned in with their customers- why? Because its part of their mantra. Boots on the ground and personally accountability are a winning combination.

One Ford (1)

Good leaders like Mulally get out of their offices, they meet with their employees and they energize the company through their passion. Being approachable is the key to a manager’s success. You lead by example. How can you lead if you are in a bubble surrounding yourself with yes men?

I am sure everyone has worked for a boss who can not connect with their employees. They have their team of people and an air of arrogance suffocates the workplace. That arrogance is key ingredient in this bubble and disconnect. An open door policy creates a more inviting, encouraging environment.

Giving back is another great way to deter the creation of such blind spots. All good leaders remember where they came from, they give back. I am too a big believer in paying forward. I think it completes the circle of leadership. Here is a life lesson and a mantra from two of my leaders I focus on in Opportunity Knocking:

Harold Hamm, Continental Resources and America’s Richest Oil Man with a High School Education:
Image: Harold Hamm

You have to base your life around principles: fairness,
integrity, charity, honesty, caring for others, etc. If
you deviate from these, you are just fooling yourself
and setting yourself up for a big fall. I try to practice
humility on a daily basis and employ all of the
principles I have learned.

David Rubenstein, The Carlyle Group:
rubenstein
Work hard; keep your ego in check; give back; and try to make
the world a better place than you found it.

Remember, success is a wonderful thing, just don’t put blinders on or you will be smacked with failure right in the face.

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Being Nimble

I recently wrote an oped for Forbes.com on how Harold Hamm should be an example for the millions of Americans out there out of work or finding themselves dated when it comes to skills. Hamm is a billionaire with a high school education. He couldn’t afford to go to college because he was one of thirteen children and his parents were sharecroppers. His public school education was not you typical fall, winter, spring. It was mostly winter because during the fall and spring he had crops to tend too.

Harold visiting his humble one bedroom home just outside of Lexington Oklahoma
Harold visiting his humble one bedroom home just outside of Lexington Oklahoma

Why is Harold’s story so important? He is a great example of how you can learn on the job and then enhance your knowledge by hitting the books selectively. When Harold first started out in the energy industry he learned from mentors and gained experience by doing. When he could afford some education he was selective and picked courses in geology that would benefit him in the exploration side of his business. Harold has told me time and time again he never stopped learning. He has evolved over the years by adding to his strengths and recognizing his weaknesses by acknowledging the changing world he lives in. The success of Continental Resources is the proof.

In today’s world, the manufacturing jobs of today are very different than the ones of our grandparents. You need to know math. Skills go beyond the manual labor. You need to have the brains too. There are great opportunities out there for anyone to learn anything their heart desires with a click of a mouse. There are so many free lectures or courses on iUniversity. I know it’s hard especially when you are a parent to find the time, but if you really want to add to your marketability or grow your business, sometimes courses or lectures like these can help expand your mind. As a mom of three busy young children and working a job that is not your typical 9-5 gig I get it. I’m a morning person so to fit in everything that makes me happy and whole I get up between 4-4:30am. Yes it’s early but with kids getting up for school starting at 5:30, there is little “me” time to begin with 🙂

You need to visualize this learning and nurturing as invisible beams that fortify your opportunity pyramid. The start at your foundation, working their way up through the six other layers of the pyramid.

RED PYRAMID
It is a cheesy saying but knowledge really is power. You want to make sure you always stay current and relevant to the world around you. If you have your own business you need to stay current so you can serve your clients to the best of your ability. If you are an employee, expanding your knowledge can help you get a promotion or a new job. If you are an aspiring entrepreneur you want to be a sponge in the environment you want to work in so you can differentiate yourself from the competition.

By being nimble you open yourself to new possibilities instead of being stuck in one mode. Building your knowledge goes back to examining the package of skills you present, and then deciding how to expand them. Some options are keeping up on trends by reading, taking a new college course
or two, networking, and finding a mentor. When Harold Hamm looked at his strengths and weaknesses, he realized he needed to learn more
in order to build his energy empire. He was a sponge, learning as much as he could from others. Once he had the financial means, he carefully
chose courses that could help him expand his business. He shows you that you do not need an MBA from Harvard to be successful. Microsoft
founder Bill Gates was a college dropout. Ideas and execution are everything.

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Embracing Fear and Learning from Failure

Honesty. Confidence. Determination. Passion. These are the traits all great leaders possess and what they look for in employees. How would you describe yourself? Be honest now 🙂

In order to be the best you can be you need to fuel that fire in your belly with goals that you can achieve so you can build your pyramid to success. Remember success is a personal definition. Success is based on you and your talents. The key? You need to recognize them and learn how to leverage them in a way you can achieve your goals. Why is this so important? Because success isn’t easy. It is hard work and yes sometimes you can fail along the way.

pyramid pic

Remember the road I created to show you the seven steps of success is shaped as a pyramid for a reason. Achieving your goals does not happen overnight. It takes time, patience, and nurturing. Each layer is carefully created. Your pieces need to fit together precisely, or you will fail. Your pyramid will collapse. Remember you need to be defined and strong.

You possess talents that need to be nurtured. To help you create your recipe for success. I have added here as well as a page on my blog where you can download your own Opportunity Pyramid so you can start planning on being the best you can be. Enjoy the journey you are about to embark on- remember every high and low has a reason. Garner from your mistakes.

Image: Harold Hamm
As Harold Hamm from Continental Resources, a billionaire with a high school education once told me in his classic warm, reflective tone: “I never gave up. Sometimes things don’t go your way but they can be the life shapers that prepare you to take on the next challenge…. Hardship sometimes is just as necessary as accomplishments. If it is too easy, you don’t learn the skills you need in order not to give up and achieve success.”

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The Secret to A Successful Corporate Culture

ImageOver the course of my 22 years in journalism I have come to know many titans in a variety of industries and what I have found out is it doesn’t matter if you are Alan Mulally of Ford Motor Company (F), Ron Kruszewski of Stifel Financial (SF), public equity titans, David Rubenstein of The Carlyle Group (CG) and Ralph Schlosstein of Evercore Partners (EVR) or even Harold Hamm of Continental Resources (CLR)- they all share one distinctive trait– a strong corporate culture. By creating a culture that embraces the goals of your mission statement a company can be successful. Culture is the rebar that holds a company together. Creating that culture starts with the leader of the company; he or she is responsible for jumpstarting the organization’s culture.

A company’s culture is the essence of how managers and employees approach
and execute plans, and this culture comes from the top. Management needs to put in place a clear set of objectives, and everyone in the organization has to believe in them to execute plans effectively. For Carlyle’s Rubenstein, his formula for creating a culture that fosters innovation and performance is the same in every Carlyle office around the globe.
“We have a ‘One Carlyle’ culture, which means everyone is truly a member of one firm and they are incented to make sure they work as one firm, or they will be penalized if they don’t,” he explains. This framework provides the comfort of inclusion and the guidelines employees need to thrive.

No matter which Carlyle office you are in around the world, the company’s long-term philosophy is present in tangible items to remind employees that they are all in this together, from visual reminders on employees’ desks to posters in the lunchrooms. Culture is a living, breathing creature. You have to nurture it and foster it over time. Rubenstein emphasizes the culture by awarding one employee in the world each year with a One Carlyle award which is considered to be the highest honor an employee can receive.

For fellow private equity titan Ralph Schlosstein, its culture of inclusion of employees and the ownership their employees feel because of their contribution is key to Evercore’s success. When asked about one of the greatest life lessons he has learned he said it was very simple, “Focus relentlessly on culture.” Schlosstein said that winning combination of inclusion and ownership has fortified an environment of growth for Evercore. In order to do this, Schlosstein explains, you need to have a clear strategy that is responsive to both your environment and the relative strengths of your business. “If you do one without the other, you lose. If you create a business plan that is not relevant to the world as it is today, failure is probable,” he says.

This culture based on the value of human capital is also present in the auto industry. Ford may be a global company, but the model Mulally uses to structure his company is something any entrepreneur or business leader can apply. He calls it the “One Ford” plan (see attachment)

This tiered, focused One Ford plan illustrates the culture of Ford. Mulally and his team meet every week, enabling Mulally and his team get to know each other extremely well: “You know you can’t fool anybody. Without leadership sharing the same vision and communicating about how they would execute, the One Ford plan would cease to exist.” Mulally said. As with any plan, it must be executed properly to be effective, CEOs need to set the example and Mulally says it sets the tone for the employees. Known for his unbelievable memory and able to recall someone after meeting them just once. A Ford employee told me about being “blown away” by his memory when walking with him on the floor of the Detroit Auto Show. Mulally went out of his way to go say hello to a dealer he’d met the year before, remembering his name and the dealership he ran. “It’s things like that that motivate you,” the employee told me. “He truly cares about the employees. Everyone is important to the overall plan.”

Mulally’s story also shows that good leaders should have the courage to not only see what business opportunities lie ahead, but also to value human capital and recognize the opportunity a healthy culture creates.

“Consistency is key when trying to achieve a goal,” Mulally stressed. He said if his employees did not share this vision, they left. It’s not that they weren’t performing; they just didn’t have the commitment or passion the company was looking for.

Part of nurturing a culture is by having CEOs who are willing to not only listen to their employees but to also constantly raising the bar of excellence for themselves.
“I have never told my employees that I know everything,” said Ron Kruszewski, “I don’t, and I’m open to change. Our organization today is the melding of many deals. We are one firm today, but we are the best because of all the different firms that make up Stifel. Your infrastructure has to be prepared. That’s the bottom line.”

Kruszewski did not hesitate when describing his endgame: “I always say I want to be able to double the firm tomorrow if I have to. And that’s how I approach my business. I have the people and the plan to be able to increase the firm very quickly in terms of our capability; I just don’t know when it’s going to take place. If you set the right culture and
thought process, growing a company with people who are nimble and thrive on change is self-selecting.”

Not only does this foster a positive environment, it can also help improve productivity. As Kruszewski puts it, “You have to invest a lot of authority with your key people. You motivate them, and they like it. This positive reinforcement builds the culture.”

Leaders like Mulally and Kruszewski do not view the loss of such employees as negative, because those employees didn’t enhance the organization in the first place. It
doesn’t matter if you are the employer or the employee—having a successful
culture begins and ends with value. Every person in an organizattion should bring value and passion to the table.

Out in the oil patch, Harold Hamm said the culture of Continental Resources is always being nurtured through his own personal improvement. “I have gone through tremendous growth myself as an individual. Obviously, you go through different stages, and you have to continually readdress what you are doing as a leader and get ready for the next stage and set of challenges facing you going forward. I’ve learned to do that. That’s the part of the job that keeps it interesting. Not a lot of people do it, and they stop along the way because their lid can’t be lifted anymore. I’ve always liked change and I thrive on changing and growing the company…. This passion is something I built into the culture of my company. Everyone in my company likes change and likes growth. We are a growth company. It is a challenge, but it’s who we are. It’s been a heck of a ride. Some employees have been with me for more than 30 years.”

Creating a positive culture is key to all these leaders’ foundations—as Schlosstein described it, “You need to be a long term believer in the things that enhance productivity.”
Even the tchotchkes and posters in Carlyle’s offices have helped foster their One Carlyle message. Productivity is nurtured in a variety of ways.

Lee Iacocca sums this up perfectly, “In the end, all business operations can be reduced to three words: people, product, and profits. Unless you’ve got a good team, you can’t do much with the other two.”